I agree 💯 but the question is, can you be able to forgive when the person wronged you intentionally? When they show zero remorse, when they don’t ask for forgiveness when they intend to hurt you some more or have done it so many times?

Tbh I find trouble forgiving. And I don’t mind holding the grudge. 😌😔 What I do to not be reminded of it is to keep a distance physically and emotionally from that person.

I know it might be eating me up whether I know it or not, but I choose to learn the lessons from the hurt- what not to do to others and how to prevent myself from getting hurt again rather than forgive the person if that even makes sense…

I am not vengeful though and I feel no need to hurt people because they hurt me.

I just keep away and spare my energy for those that build me.